gay or not gay

the question to ask is why are there anti-gay activists? what is it that they do? is it their full time job to oppose two individuals who love each other and to deny them the same rights as do two heterosexuals? what drives their desire to be anti-gay? it cannot just be religion. they call themselves socially conservative. they spend millions of dollars opposing the gay community. that's what they did in california with prop 8. but why? i guess they think that they have resolved all issues that affect the heterosexual community: no more divorces, spousal abuses, child abuse, teen pregnancies etc...
but wait a minute, those issues still exist...so why, can someone please tell me why do they waste their time, money and energy chasing an issue which should be the last on the agenda...
its difficult to say.....

god apparently defined marriage...and when he defined it he said it should be between a man and a woman....
so where do we get this definition from?.....the bible? the quran?..the gita?..torah?
even if there is such a definition..it was defined thousands of years ago...but we live in a different age now...
an age where what someone said 2 years ago doesn't matter anymore...
look at any aspect of life...medicine for example...what we use to treat cancer (any cancer) now is vastly different from what we used 10 years ago...
so why should we care about what was said (probably by another man) thousands of years ago...

if we allow gay's all the rights that heterosexuals have, what is that the anti-gays are afraid of? degradation of society? loss of moral values?.....
hello (yell) people.....look around you....the society is already on a downward slope...morality has taken a beating...terrorism, poverty, diseases, ...there are so many issues worth taking up.....

so let everyone be...as long there is love and compassion that is all that matters...
your energy will be better spent tackling 'real' issues...issues that will surely change this world...opposing gays will not change this world, nor will it bring peace and harmony or make you any happy....so live and let live....
in peace